Me: Lucy you're so smart. You know everything, don't you?
Lucy: Actually, Isabella knows everything, and they say I'm tiny. Mom, am I big?
Me: Yes, you're big. Does it hurt your feelings when they say that?
Lucy: Yes. But I tell them "No." Can I tell them "No," Mom?
Me: Yes. You could also tell them, "Please don't say that, it hurts my feelings."
Lucy: But I can't say that--only moms.
